Rubin, H. Ted, Juvenile Justice: If you're dealing with an ongoing or upcoming court case, this is the place to get support. Unless there are reasons otherwise, the Social Services will always write to you and let you know that an initial assessment is being conducted. The last thing CPS workers do is remove from the home and reunification is always a goal that they help you work towards. This is tricky as I'm in a situation similar to you, they don't always side with them for e.g I went to court a few weeks ago as they tried to remove my youngest of me, the judge laughed at them at said you can come in here ask me to remove a child with no evidence you told the mother 3 times you were issuing court proceedings but didn't until 3 days ago and in the application to court they said the hearing should be heard within 4 days!!! Problems with Social Services.. so upset and confused! Can i ask why a hostel is not suitable lots of families are in hostel's i know its not ideal but kids do live in them . They don't see how things really are. Ss don't believe me or my partner abuse the children in any way. I don't have a solicitor at present as I'm waiting for legal aid. How often to the judges follow a mediator's recommendation? To be honest all I've learnt from social services is that they are liars and will make you out to be the bad, they took my eldest to live with there dad and they lick he's bum to bits!!! Sometimes the Guardian agrees with social services and sometimes they do not. I agree social wotker has neaver spoken to my children had meeting for 12moiths with me knowing and hands me paper 24 hours before a meeting and says I haven’t conpkide and still no one will talk with us . I told him from 3.15 until 6.30 was long enough to have a meal. A judge can deny a divorce to someone who is effectively preventing his or her ex spouse from remarrying by using his or her religion. Caseworkers are typically employed at various departments of mental health and departments of Social Services. Getting involved in social justice can be overwhelming. It seems like what ever my ex does ss don't care as it's more work for them. My ex got the contact he wanted before but it only lasted a month before he broke the undertakings I new he wouldn't stick to it but the judge didn't listen. A father that is bothered about his children would pay towards their upbringing he would also want to be kept up to date with the children's school but he doesn't bother. I'm not sure if judge will go by the reports of SS as I have had no involvement. As a part of this process, the administrative law judge must determine if there is any type of work that this applicant could perform in the national economy. File closed, Social Services involvement ends 2. I had domestic violence with him but they haven't even looked into that and think my children are safe with him!!! If I get upset and began social services not to do this their only going to use it against me and say i have mental health issues. I know he hasn't. This article is more than 5 years old. He blames me for it all. Social Services’ care department helps ensure children are healthy, safe, and well looked after. For further sources of help, please take a look at our. He's doing anything and everything to do this. You do get parents that use children as weapons just as my ex is doing. Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the process of terminating a marriage or marital union. The goal of an administrative law judge is to determine whether or not an applicant who is appealing a denial of his or her Social Security Disability claim is actually entitled to the benefits that he or she is trying to get. I also told the judge at the first hearing how abusive my ex is. Judges want the parties to negotiate and settle the issues between themselves. The judge will understand that your first responsibility is to protect your child. When she was asked why dad lies she said. Lita Annette Pettusdotson. What most of us don’t understand is just how much looks matter—and how difficult it is for us to ignore a person’s appearance when making a social judgment. So I asked her where it was she shrugged her shoulders and said dunno. Basically they say she does not meet the eligibility criteria for their specialist dementia unit, and I believe she does. Last time in court I told the judge he wants them over night in a hostel and the judge said I'm sure cafcass won't agree. They also think it's ok for my ex to drop the children off at the top of my road as the non mol says he can't come on my road. Monitor and review 3. He then turned up where we were having a meal kicking off shouting abuse. My ex has a history of domestic abuse against me and also hit my partner in front of the children last year. A judge has criticised a local authority social worker for making “critical errors” in evidence she gave during a hearing to decide care arrangements for four children. I am considered high risk. He is self employed getting cash in hand at 500 a wk and he's not payin a penny towards his kids the money he gets is enough to private rent. We all know that looks matter. We then went back to court as he used my application I applied for the get the children home for him to apply for residency. He has been trying for the past two years to gain residency of the children. Community service acts as an alternative to the harsh criminal punishment. My children are no on child protection due to emotional abuse. The hostel is for single people but it has three different stages before he just had a room now he's moved to a different part of it and has a room with a kitchen in it. They just want to finish the report and do it the easiest way they can. He then hit my partner and got a caution. Decide to have a Child Protection Conference and they will decide whether to Put the child on a Child Protection Plan or not and consider whether any further legal planning may need to t… Before I didn't say anything to the children. HEARING What Salman did and when he did was 20 years back and at that age and statures one tends to get embroiled in controversial acts due to ignorance and lack of awareness of the consequences and repurcursions. I told the judge I didn't agree with that contact as he lies to the children telling them they will be living with him soon and once court was other with id agree to it as my ex would know the children were remaing with me. I've asked to be reffered anyway. Nathan Glazer Winter 1978. After everything my ex has done even fleeing with the children over 80 miles away trying to re home them and put them into new schools I have never said he can't see the children. Ss admitted before they could see the emotional abuse and yet they still don't want to consider this. The whole case is for the best interest of the children. 1 The law says that in making an order or judgment concerning the custody of children, "the rights of the parents shall, in the absence of misconduct, be held to be equal, and the happiness and welfare of the children shall determine their custody. hi,can I ask what sort of hostel your childres dad stays at?some hostels allow no children in atall.and almost all are on a strict rota and are not insured to allow anyone other than the tenant to stay.even if it was court ordered the hostel would be in there rights to refuse.i cant see it happening that way to be honest.perhaps try and locate the hostel and call them.dont say who you are,but just enquire about the rules of children staying especially if its a all man hostel.iv always been against overnite contact regarding young children.why not have kids for the day then drop home?and pick up early the next morn? It is not a cosy forum and all professionals taking part should expect to be tested. Does Cafcass always get involved - residency orders? He was given a non molestation. The children also need somewhere stable to visit their dad. Ss know this isn't true however the report is still ongoing. Ss were asked to do a section 37 report due to the caution and cos I've had a marac meeting. It seems like it's one thing for one person and something totally different for another. The courts were only interested once my ex had hit my partner. This was ordered due to what the children witness on hand over and because a marac meeting has been held. I believe they are against me because I have put in several complaints about them and also involved my mp. It won't be until they are old enough to understand that they will hate him for his actions. I know I need time to myself and the time is nice but while my ex is acting the way he is I can't put the fact id like a break before my children's best interests. I told the judge I didn't agree with that contact as he lies to the children telling them they will be living with him soon and once court was other with id agree to it as my ex would know the children were remaing with me. Does Cafcass always get involved - residency orders? A hostel is not a suitable place for children to be. He wants control of me still and the only way he can get that is through the children. They are likely to ask you and an older child to agree to a medical examination by the GP. I have never really had dealings with ss but have been in and out if the family courts. It's not. I do not want the abuse from him on my own doorstep infront of my children and a new born baby. Judges must decide custody based on “the best interests of the child." Browse related questions. The hostel have said the children can stay. as I was not on that jury. Children's services haven't issued any hearing to a court themselves. There is no law that can guarantee everyone, or even a majority’s, sense of justice will be carried out. Child custody Family court and child custody cases Mediation. Multi-agency meeting at school with social services - do I have to go? He even got my son to make a statement to the police saying I had strangled him. In the last report it stated my daughter said. So they don't always side with them x. Hi Keziah, So a judge didn't see that as acceptable so how is children sleeping on an air bed in a hostel acceptable? He said I've booked a family meal so it's tough. He doesn't care what his actions are doing to the children. He earns enough money to rent a two bedroom property. 0 have signed. The court does. Clinical Social Work Association Code of Ethics April 2016. The judge also listened to my concerns of emotional abuse. He accused me of so many things I asked social to file a report which they did. The judge doesn't appoint a GAL. Ss also think I'm pathetic for having the non mol and it should b removed. How to get a needs assessment. He should of been happy with the contact he had every other weekend but that wasn't enough and he had to ruin it. Offer of support and help offered to the family Single Assessment completed and there are three options: 1. The judge then orderd he was to have children on a wed and every other weekend at his mothers house 80 miles away. The way they dealt with my last report which I asked them to do in the first place, was a waste of time. File closed, Social Services involvement ends 2. Forced judicial adherence to rules in decisionmaking, for example, restricts the discretion of judges . They say the relationship with the children's father is important. Children with pick up on your emotions though, so if you are angry with SS they will see this. Cafcass need to see where he is living just the same as they have with me. Just like I was never told my mum didn't pay my dad a penny. It will require evidence to back up claims. Rajesh Savlani started this petition to CJI and 1 other. He fled with the children making up lies saying I was beating the children up. If you're dealing with an ongoing or upcoming court case, this is the place to get support. They created a backbone for the new modern sites. Endnote. He tries to buy the children. It won't be until they are old enough to understand that they will hate him for his actions. They told me to remove the non mol and let my ex get the children from my house as he says he won't act like it again. It is the CPS workers job to do the investigation and make a recommendation but the judge does not have to go with that if they think it is not in the best interest of the child. I think the fact that I told the courts he is violent and has a history of hittin me should be considered. and social system disregards what the people want as long as they are controllable. He now has contact at a contact centre due to what happened with my partner and the fact he has constantly harassed me and a marac meeting has been done. He still turned up at my house banging on the door and windows shouting the children. If you're facing a divorce, sooner or later you'll meet the judge in court. Reply. How Cases Get Reviewed. I didn't mean the judge having an easy time it's ss. But, you have to be reasonable. There are lots of fancy documents, leaflets and Government Guidance, stating how Social Services should help you. He was told more than once not to come to the front door but he does. I stopped contact and brought the next court hearing forward. So they put the non molestation in place and said contact needs to be in a contact centre until social finish a section 37 report. Plenty of young children have a hostel as their main home. My ex told ss my partner is now abusing the children. This sub-forum is not intended to substitute legal advice, always seek professional advice relevant to your circumstances. Both organisations have a lot of information on their websites and helplines that you can contact. Do keep talking, we are listening. She was arguing she didn't agree so I told her to argue it with the judge. Plenty of parents live in hostels as a temporary measure whilst waiting for a permanent home. Disability Determination Services, or DDS, is the state-level agency responsible for determining whether or not a claimant is eligible for Social Security disability benefits or for benefits from the state’s Medicaid program. Judge went against all recommendations... help. Personally I feel contact should not take place over night at a hostel. My Judge didn't listen to a word of the Social Services or Cafcass reports, or any others for that matter. He's vandalised our cars and constantly rang ss making up lies. The courts do give due consideration to the report, however it does not mean that they will be followed. This is antitrust’s blind spot. They should be able to give you some advice and support. Is their anything I can do. I asked social services to investigate and they said they new he was but couldn't over ride a court order. Not only has he made her believe he gives me money when he doesn't he's made her believe he gives me money and I don't spend it on the children. This article is more than 5 years old. My ex then said my partner is abusing the children. It's hard for the children because they are starting to realise he lies. Medical treatment that took place after the client received benefits gets reviewed during this process. It was our youngest daughters bday on the weds and he said he would be bringing her back late. The disability examiner or the administrative law judge who made the initial favorable decision to approve Social Security benefits does the case review. Judges are allowed to deviate from the guidelines if there are good reasons. My children were upset the night before they said their dad had said they were going into care but not to worry as he would get them out. In the process of how does one become a judge, one must either be appointed or elected. They also rule on cases that are resubmitted for reconsideration. Market competition, while harming some participants, often benefits society. An Initial Assessment is completed and there are three options: 1. You do get parents that use children as weapons just as my ex is doing. Will the judge agree to what children's services are saying? The judge then orderd he was to have children on a wed and every other weekend at his mothers house 80 miles away. He tries to buy the children. Community service or social service is a mode of punishment provide by the law which the offender can escape imprisonment or fines. Should judges administer social services? But when my ex lies saying he gives me money and I don't spend it on them I need to let the children know it's lies or they will believe his lies and hate me for it. Once he has a place of his own that the children can call daddy's house is better for them. I'm worried the judge will believe every lie they come out with. That's where ss let down so many children. While we can all agree that discrimination is bad and that too many people are maltreated in the justice system, proponents of “social justice” seem to be forgetting a key piece of information: 99 percent of the time, people falter in life NOT because of a lack of social equality, but because of bad personal decisions. He also uses the system to harass me. The ultimate decision is made by the judge. Fact is he broke the undertakings and he broke the non mol with in four days of having it. Does a judge always agree with children's services? If I was making my children sleep on an air bed it wouldn't be acceptable. I know I need time to myself and the time is nice but while my ex is acting the way he is I can't put the fact id like a break before my children's best interests. There are so many causes you can get behind, varieties of movements, tricky vocabulary words and big … I've done so much to address all concerns, social services admit their is no current concerns but based on past concerns they still want to take me to court. Most Social Security disability lawyers and representatives, regardless of where they practice, will generally agree with this assessment: There are good administrative law judges and there are those that are not as good. Ss are a let down and do not do enough to protect our children my childrens dad is the same emotional and physical abuse yet ss do nothing because they are over worked. But what I think is irrelevant. Chances are, you either receive Social Security benefits or know someone who does. The GAL will also make a recommendation. If you do this you are admitting you are not an adequate parent. This is clearly where my children have got this fear from. I can see why people take the law into their own hands. I also feel there should be no over night contact until the children have somewhere suitable to stay as a hostel is not in my opinion suitable. He accused me of so many things I asked social to file a report which they did. Section 21.1 of the Divorce Act requires that a spouse who wants a divorce must file an affidavit saying that spouse has removed any religious barrier to remarriage that are within that spouse’s control. The judge also listened to my concerns of emotional abuse. If it was that detrimental to a child it wouldn't happen. They weren't interested in anything I had to say. The children in a hostel have no where else to sleep so there is no other choice than staying there. What are the historical origins of these values and how have they shaped the modern profession? Plenty of parents live in hostels as a temporary measure whilst waiting for a permanent home. If your child is old enough and disagrees with the Guardian they might be helped to instruct their own solicitor. Joanna Nicolas. Last week my children were taken from school by their father as children's services instructed him to do so. If you have a lawyer, you should consult with your attorney about how best to cooperate and participate in the GAL process. Judges don't want to decide how you live your life for you. If you're dealing with an ongoing or upcoming court case, this is the place to get support. A concern for social justice has always been an essential part of social services and social work. We then went back to court as he used my application I applied for the get the children home for him to apply for residency. It's just to make my life hell. I know that that's why I want the children to have a relationship with him. My house had to be viewed by cafcass to make sure it was suitable for my partners son to stay. Due to the evidence only being of my children saying what their dad tells them ss say this isn't enough evidence so I don't know what they expect. There are plenty of dads that don't get over night access due to their living arrangements. Every bit of support that's been put in place I have asked for and children's services have done nothing. If I fight the recommendation, may the recommendation my the mediator be changed? Judges are allowed to deviate from the guidelines if there are good reasons. This is tricky as I'm in a situation similar to you, they don't always side with them for e.g I went to court a few weeks ago as they tried to remove my youngest of me, the judge laughed at them at said you can come in here ask me to remove a child with no evidence you told the mother 3 times you were issuing court proceedings but didn't until 3 days ago and in the application to court they said the hearing should be heard within 4 days!!! He's even told the children I don't love them I'm only bothered about the new baby. Can I get back with my partner with social services been involved. Any advice. The police have said that to me. My children come first and it's my role as a mother to protect them. What will Cafcass do? He tells people mum and her partner hit us but they don't. He said care cases involving large sibling groups presented “significant challenges” to council social services bosses and to family court judges. When next in court I don't understand how a judge can ignore all these facts. If they feel adoption is the best option for the child, the local authority will apply for a placement order. In court my ex admitted he had watched the programme with the children. The Social Security Administration does not actually use caseworkers. A placement order allows the local authority to place a child with suitable adopters, even if the parents do not agree. He hit my partner infront of my children. I just think it's the wrong place for children to be and if he really wanted them over night he should be private renting. Social Security has provided financial protection for our nation's people for over 80 years. I said I no he's your dad but fact is he hasn't brought you any uniform. So they put the non molestation in place and said contact needs to be in a contact centre until social finish a section 37 report. They were made to sleep on the floor. 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